It goes as; I cannot continue to live in a lodge, with all the difficulties. After my husband threatened me and demanded that I return home, I decided to waive my alimony rights in order to receive a divorce from the Sharia Court, … I wore what I choose and neither my Muslim husband nor his Muslim family said anything to me. My well-wishers have understood my condition and are working … But I don't feel so; … If I somehow misread your post and your husband is actually Muslim, then you can ignore what I have written. He accepts me even though I'm Muslim! Though my father was already late then but my mother played a big role in our relationship. This is the clear Sunni point of view as we find in the Quran a Verse which explains this duration: I am sure they will clarify your concerns in the light of ruling of Islam through sunnah, Hadith and Holy Quran. Even in prison, though, the member of the nation are greatly outnumbered by orthodox Sunni Muslims. I married to a Turkish man and I am American. I’d like to congratulate you on having been chosen by Allah for Islam and being saved from the wrath and punishment of Allah. Though my father was already late then but my mother played a big role in our relationship. I was able to wear hijab from the first day. We believe that Jesus was a Prophet sent by Allah, he was human like Adam, like Muhammed, like you and I. 61. First let me start with a bit of history. Monika has converted to Islam. My husband was convicted of a criminal offense and is doing life in prison. I hope you find happiness and peace with your husband. So I started with my mother and just kind of told her that you know I was wanting to convert and after the research I have done, I felt like Islam was best for me. My [32f] husband [40m] converted to Islam without asking me. Don't worry sister! I left home for work and lived outside. A Muslim man can marry a Christian or Jewish woman, although you did not mention what your religious beliefs are. Midnightmoon, IslamicAnswers.com editor], Guess Who? I converted to Islam 14 months ago. So, I would recommend you that see a scholar in your local Islamic centre or an Imam in mosque and discuss this with them. Their underlying beliefs are bizarre, their rhetoric is rooted in anger, and yes they do preach racism as a part of their ideology. These people are not following what is said in the Quran and Sunnah. He said I'm always with the Internet and ignore him. It is my pleasure and joy to bring honor to our family as his wife. During the … He is allowed to marry a woman who is Christian or Jew. You have taken a wise step, which is to find out about the religion :O). I have been married to my husband for many years now. I cannot continue to live in a lodge, with all the difficulties. Also, we are interracial. Upon arrival, I converted to Islam and we married,” Alyona tells me. What Sustained My Marriage After My Husband Converted Me From Christianity To Islam - Yinka Quadri's Wife Opens Up Posted by Amarachi on Tue 08th Oct, 2019 - tori.ng Yinka Quadri's wife-Adenike Quadri talks about her 30 year old marriage with the popular Yoruba actor. Hi Juli, My well-wishers have understood my condition and are working … My husband isn’t religious, but he proved how much he wanted to marry me by visiting the mosque every day for two weeks to get our nikah papers signed. Ask him whatever is on your mind, that is the only way you will be able to alleviate your concerns and fears. He is not muslim and I do not know how to share the news. He had been in jail 3 years and has now “submitted” and converted to Islam. One day, far from now, when the sands of time threaten to fall no more. At the end of the 'iddah, the couple are divorced. That being said, it does not mean that there are no racist people who are Muslims. I hold this in the same regard as any marriage. That way it can be answered in turn,inshaAllah. I am nervous. Going to church being as Islam is not wrong. They didn’t want to give me the job because of my hijab, again. What Sustained My Marriage After My Husband Converted Me From Christianity To Islam - Yinka Quadri's Wife Opens Up Posted by Amarachi on Tue 08th Oct, 2019 - tori.ng Yinka Quadri's wife-Adenike Quadri talks about her 30 year old marriage with the popular Yoruba actor. They are in fact not Muslim. Islam is a great religion with respect, peace, and kindness as the main qualities. I know that Muslim women are not allowed in Islam to marry non-Muslim men; there is a sister on a converts' list who recently became Muslim and who was asking what to do regarding her non-Muslim husband who accepted her conversion without any problems and who also lets her educate the children the Islamic way. I left Islam for like 5 years. I'm going to think hard about this but at the moment my answer is no to converting n i know if i do convert i will never really believe in Islam so it's looking like my marriage is over which I'm thinking isn't such a bad thing if my husband can't live me for who I am. By Jenn I met a Muslim gentleman who introduced me to Islam. ... Ms Al Matori's family learned to love her new husband like one of their own. Relationships (Throwaway because my husband knows my reddit account) Hi reddit, so I've found myself in a really weird situation. Ex-model claims husband forced her to convert to Islam. I would say, your husband converted to Islam to marry you and for the society for the love he has on you and not to lose you. In this video we answer the question we receive often as a Muslim couple: Did Hasan force me to convert to Islam in order to get married to him? I am happy with what my husband is and is doing for me and my child alhamdulillah. Do not feel scared to ask questions and especially to your husband. To my surprise she said whatever you decide is right for you. A Muslim man can marry a non Muslim woman from if they are Christian or a woman of judaism. That being said, do all you can to support his journey along this path. The Prayer of Need (Salat al-Hajah) or Istikhara? He says his parents wouldn't approve or understand. She tries to convince her mother that this is for the best. This 'iddah is 3 months or 3 menstrual cycles. There is absolutely no prohibition on blacks marrying white, or on Arabs marrying Europeans etc. After converting for her Muslim husband, Mohamed Naddaf, 25-year-old Ashlee Brown (left) met a gruesome undeserved fate. Salam. My husband & I love eachother a lot & I think we make a great couple. My husband has converted to Islam and I need to know what that means for me. I even changed my name to let people know that I left Islam. Glamorous MP's daughter, 19, converts to Islam and marries her Muslim boyfriend who she's accused of selling cocaine with - and says she'll 'never question Allah's plan' I am just terribly confused. One’s Islam is the capital of their spiritual investment and actions are like profits to the investment. Dar al-Ifta al Misriyyah is considered among the pioneering foundations for fatwa in the Islamic world.It has been the premier institute to represent Islam and the international flagship for Islamic legal research. 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Two weeks ago I made a life altering decision to convert to Islam. A few years later, I was drawn to Islam after reading the Quran and studying the life of our prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam, and I realized that the Quran is the most beautiful and influencial piece of literature ever produced, and it had to be the word of Allah. Relationships (Throwaway because my husband knows my reddit account) Hi reddit, so I've found myself in a really weird situation. I … His family should accept me and allow me to live in their house. Alhamdulillah, we have been very good friends since then. “I thought Allah brought me here to evangelize them.” Nasser’s English was very good and he thought his Islamic apologetics weren’t bad either. My husband was convicted of a criminal offense and is doing life in prison. It is moments like these that make me believe that regardless of what my husband does since he is a non-brown man married to a brown girl – since he is a Muslim convert married to a natural-born Muslim – it will often be assumed by many Muslims that he is a fake Muslim. I wanted to learn more about Islam in order to better understand his lifestyle and his choices. However, I have not told the man I love, my husband, the news. I am in complete agreement with what mks1982 and SisterZ have said. My husband turned into my teacher as he taught me all about Islam, fasting and the Islamic prayer. If he denies, then three months is the time he has, to rethink and decide if he wants to accept Islam. The non Muslim wife doesn't have to convert, but he may encourage you and also he will probably want to raise your son the Islamic way. I really am very lost with no direction. Learn that every Muslim is a brother to every Muslim and that the Muslims constitute one brotherhood. “I … May Allah show you and make you choose the right path. This means she should reject having intercourse with him and they should be divorced after the waiting period. This does not detract from the importance of practice of the faith, but it is to show the grand nature of faith alone. I will read my words and I will remember why I married a Muslim man. My [32f] husband [40m] converted to Islam without asking me. We usually only fear things we don't know about, so I can understand your fears as the little you have heard about Islam is not true and really you do not 'know'. Nothing shall be legitimate to a Muslim, which belongs to a fellow Muslim unless it was given freely and willingly. On May 26th, … Hello Juli, I was regularly going to the Church while I was here in Dubai or in my going to Church. Me and my husband prayed for Allah to help make it easier on me. But you have an understanding with each other. He is black and I am white. 'I converted to Islam of my own will, want to live with husband Shafin': Hadiya in SC "Even now I am under police surveillance. I never dreamed of having a big wedding, or even any wedding at all. (Amin). However, my husband did continue to ask me to read the Quran. What a blessing to enter into the TRUE religion of Allah, the Exalted and leaving their false and distorted religions. Posted by juli5224 • December 8, 2010 • Printer-friendly. In your both heart this dua will fill love about each other “dua for make husband love me“. He did tell you he converted to Islam. She was very happy with my husband and accepted him wholeheartedly. InshaAllah this video is beneficial for anyone who is looking for information on the best way to introduce and help to guide others to Islam.We hope you enjoyed this week’s video! Every Muslim knows several, if not dozens, who chose to convert to Islam as a young adult or even later in life. As for your Common Law husband, you should ask him if he is an Orthodox Muslim or has he joined the Nation of Islam. He is my husband and I have no desire but to be his refuge and support. At least, not fully. Speaking as someone who married an ex-felon who also converted in prison, I can say with reasonable certainty that your husband is likely in the best of circumstances, considering that he is serving a life sentence. May Allah strengthen your faith and make things easy for you. Below is a part of Prophet Muhammed(saw)'s last sermon: All mankind is from Adam and Eve, an Arab has no superiority over a non-Arab nor a non-Arab has any superiority over an Arab; also a white has no superiority over a black, nor a black has any superiority over a white- except by piety and good action. He equally shares in changing dirty diapers, spill patrol and nipping temper tantrums in the bud. I come in peace.. My husband and I married in a Catholic Church and we have lived for 24 years. But my resistance to convert to Islam drastically widened the divide between me and my husband, making it toxic enough to destroy our relationship as husband and wife, and his ability to be a present father to our kids. He knows of my interest in Islam and he knows I read the Qu'ran but he does not know I said Shahadah. He alleged that Kehinde had converted to Christianity from Islam without his consent. She was very happy with my husband and accepted him wholeheartedly. Yusuf Islam/Cat Stevens is a darling of the Western media these days, because he converted to the elites’ favored religion. She tries to convince her mother that this is for the best. Give him space to be himself. I converted to Islam 14 months ago. Just wait and be patient. Every relationship there are some miss understandings between husband and wife. Also, as mks1982 has said, Islam strongly discourages racism. My husband is Muslim and I was Catholic. Should I just wait until he shares this with me? Question. I wouldn't worry if he hasn't told you. His family should accept me and allow me to live in their house. Thank you for your consideration and kindness. Alyona’s husband, who is ten years older, had already been married — his children by his first wife live with his mother. From a religious point of view a Muslim man can marry a Christian women only if she agrees that children will be brought up as devout Muslim and there will be no element of Christianity whatsoever in their up-bringing and also there are some other rights that a husband has on his wife which she needs to observe as this an inter-religion marriage and vice versa. The reason I am telling it now is because someone recently asked me if I was planning to convert to Islam for my husband and it caught me off-guard. Valentine's Day: The country guy who converted to Islam for the girl of his dreams. No other woman who has converted to Islam should suffer like me. Do not therefore, do injustice to yourselves. We have one son together, and he has a son with another woman. May Allah reward you for reaching out to us. What you heard about a man not marrying a white woman could be true if he is part of the NOI. As the scholars also, say if one of married couple convert to islam and the waiting period passed and the other also became muslim that their former husband/wife is the best to keep, this means their marriage is still acknowledged and they can live together as before as husband and wife. His conversion will likely be the rope he clings to in order to stay sane, stay out of trouble, and find brotherly friendship he might not find otherwise. I am unsure what to do or where to go from here. A man identified as Ishaq Mustaqim has narrated why he converted from Christianity to Islam. After a young woman converted to Islam to please her Muslim husband, police were horrified to discover the stomach-churning secret he kept hidden in his bathroom for days. You should indeed sit down with your husband discuss his conversion, and ask him the questions you have asked us: what implications does it have for your marriage, and what are his expectations of you. Islam … Sorry, I didn't get it right. When she found that her husband Amit Vishwas had converted into Islam, she lodged a complaint with Sukhi Sewania police demanding a case be lodged against the latter. A woman who converted to islam shouldn't stay (return to her) with a non-muslim Husband. Press Trust of India, November 17, 2017: Mumbai, Nov 18 (PTI) A former model has alleged that her husband put pressure on her to convert to Islam and when she resisted he physically assaulted her and asked her to leave the house. Nicole Queen and her husband talk about mixed race marriage, converts to Islam and give you the top 10 qualities to make it … His gentle, and sometimes nagging, reminders paid off. The experience put him off future visits. If your husband converted to Islam, then that is the most important thing. Monika has converted to Islam. We believe that our life on earth is a test and that whatever we do now will determine whether we go to Heaven or Hell after we die. My dignity and self respect did not permit me to bend backwards for him and his family, by converting to Islam." He wasn't religious beforehand, so this change is sudden. But when the time came and we were getting married it became clear that the event was not for us but for our families – for each of us to introduce the people who had shaped our lives to our new spouse and for our families to get to know this new person. On Friday my mother-in-law found out that I'm Muslim & she got extremely mad! Critics generally treat Bob Dylan’s “Christian period” as an embarrassing anomaly in his otherwise stellar career, while Yusuf Islam gets articles like the one below to explain his thinking and justify his action. But, definitely there is no division in Islam on the basis of race or colour and someone has misguided you. For me, personally, I came to Kuwait wearing a t-shirt and blue jeans. Last night my husband told me he's converting to Islam, he doesn't expect me to convert, and that he'd still continue drinking alcohol, says that some Muslims drink anyway, and that any future kids would be brought up with the ability to make their own choices on religion. I am not to judge. He is my best friend, confidant, and the father of my children. Before marriage, they both decided to convert to Islam, since Dharmendra’s first wife, Prakash Kaur, did not want a divorce. I'm not sure how much they have changed over the years but there was a time when they would never marry or allow a white person in their organization. Moreover, my family doesn’t discriminate. Just to let you know a little about what Muslims believe: We believe that there is no one worthy of worship but Allah. Most large prisons have a chapter of the Nation. During that period, the couple are not allowed to have sexual relations. No other woman who has converted to Islam should suffer like me. Please forgive me for the delay. His family does not accept me. a women convert in Islam last 4 years this year she get certificate of new Muslim in Dubai but her husband not with her he have other women in helplines . 21-year-old Aliyah used to be known as Alexandra. MY HUSBAND. After all, love that matters for you both to stay together and lead a happy life. I was Hindu but converted to Islam and got married to my husband. We talk about how Hasan introduced me to Islam and also give 5 tips for those who want to introduce Islam to people in their lives, whether it be their friend, significant other, or coworker. “After my husband’s conversion, the court ordered him to provide support for me and my child, but my lawyer assured me that the Greek Orthodox Court’s ruling was not binding since it was issued after my husband announced his conversion to Islam. What it’s like to convert to Islam for the man you love. Marriage Contract HELLO MY HUSBAND ID CONVERTING TO MUSLIM... [Editor's Note: Please log in and submit your question as a new post for publication. ... After my divorce my mind was thinking about Islam. If he is an orthodox Muslim, then you should try to learn about the religion. In Islam though, a Muslim woman can't marry a non muslim man. She said that I'm disgrace to her family & she is embarrassed that her son's wife is a Muslim! (Photo credit: Facebook, Screenshot via YouTube) New videos every Tuesday. The Nation of Islam has dwindled greatly in numbers and is hardly found anymore in most cities, but their presence hangs on in prison. In fact, the positive experience many muslim men say they have in prison with each other, they often have a hard time finding again in local mosques once they are released. Not considered Muslims. He hasn't kept anything from you. She was one of the people who chose my husband for me. Every human has the right to decide what he wants in his life. Alhamdulillah, we have been very good friends since then. Please, how do I have a successful love marriage? There is no one or anything like Allah. Jazak Allah khayr brother Abdul Wali, I was going to point this out myself. "No white has any superiority over the black or vice versa and no Arab is superior than a non-Arab or vice versa; All are the children of Adam and Adam was created from earth; righteousness is the only criteria for superiority" I have passed through challenges, but I feel God has always taken care of me and blessed me with so much. But this year, he told me many lies. Because of what they preach and teach they are outside of Islam. But my resistance to convert to Islam drastically widened the divide between me and my husband, making it toxic enough to destroy our relationship as husband and wife, and his ability to be a present father to our kids. I do not understand why he would keep this from me. For me, it was proof for myself that I was a believer. Islam doesn't discrimanate against anyones race or color. My husband never stopped me from going to Church. We have two kids any my husband never forced me to accept Islam. If your husband has become a true Muslim, then I think you will find him to be a very loving, kind and helpful husband. Since your husband does not seem to be from a Muslim family, this may not be an issue for you. We believe that Allah has sent many Prophets and Messengers to earth to guide mankind starting with Adam (peace be upon him) and Muhammed being the last (peace be upon him). The Dua for husband and wife problems will solve your miss understanding between you both from your heart and mind. I asked my husband why there was Islamic literature in our house, seeing as we're not Muslim, and he said to me "I'm converting to Islam, my friend suggested I should, it's a good thing, maybe you should do so too!" We are common law married. My husband converted to Islam and married another. I'm sure he will share everything with you. They offered me money to continue my studies along with my husband but I did not want to burden them and preferred to look after my family and keep working to help in feeding the family. Nah bro. The artist replied to a question: Did you embrace Islam openly with conviction, or because Zou If he accepts Islam, then he would remain your husband. As you know, I'm Islam convert but my husband is still a Christian. Wael IslamicAnswers.com Editor The only people who know the words to the Sabbath prayers by heart in my husband’s (Jewish) family are me and my sister-in-law… who also converted. Answer: Assalamualaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, I pray this finds you well. :). I have heard that he cannot be married to a white woman. 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Is your question about religion or is it about race as you said that you are white Christian and your boyfriend/husband is black. she want married with Muslim man in Dubai is she need divorce paper from husband for 2nd marriage but her husband saperate to her last 12 years . By Isaac Nowroozi. To learn more about Muslim converts, I suggest looking at this to get an idea of what your husband is going or will be gluing through.http://www.muslimconverts.com/ I immediately fell in love with Islam and within a few short months, decided it was what I'd been searching for all along! My husband taught me how to pray and the rest I struggled through. He has yet to tell his family or friends in Turkey he has got married. So Juli, I hope your husband has not joined the Nation. Once you accept Islam, you should invite your husband to Islam too. Last night my husband told me he's converting to Islam, he doesn't expect me to convert, and that he'd still continue drinking alcohol, says that some Muslims drink anyway, and that any future kids would be brought up with the ability to make their own choices on religion. She was one of the people who chose my husband for me. I do not know how to bring it up to him or if I should question him at all. Where does that leave me? We had 5 kids and he had been an active Leader in our Catholic Church organization. My family didn’t even verbally hurt me. My wife converted to Islam So my wife and I have been together for 16 years, married for almost 14 and over the past couple months she's decided to convert to Islam with the help of her teacher/acupuncturist/Sufi whatever. So of course he can still be with you. In the course of your relationship since his incarceration he has probably shared with you some of the terrible experiences he witnesses or endures living in a penitentiary. The opinion of almost all Muslim scholars is that if the wife converts to Islam and the husband does not, they automatically enter 'iddah (waiting period) for divorce. If he agrees to convert to Islam, you must have a proper Islamic nikah (marriage) before he can be considered your husband. therefore in an islamic country a Judge would either divorce you after the waiting period or confirm your marriage. Your husband has probably became a better person. Then I reverted back to Islam… But from time to time, he would say I never obey him and he doesn't want to talk about it because I never change. My husband isn’t religious, but he proved how much he wanted to marry me by visiting the mosque every day for two weeks to get our nikah papers signed. Moreover, my family doesn’t discriminate. Peace sister. I am not Muslim. Please don’t forget to subscribe. The experience put him off future visits. And my father was an imam in my community. He wasn't religious beforehand, so this change is sudden. “Eventually my husband and I moved to the U.K and all that drama about hijabs and religion disappeared” After a while working as a cleaner I did my care assistant’s course and I became a care worker, but not without another challenge. When I met my now husband, he agreed that he would be happy eloping. I married to a Turkish man and I am American. “I began to tell everybody about Islam, my fellow students, my teachers, my neighbors, everybody I came into contact with,” he says.
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